The Life Live it Well

Protect yourself and your family from the Fire of Hell

  • About Intention- Search Think Learn how to please Allaah. When He instructs you to stop, stop instantly, but when He Commands or Wishes for something, go ahead with it. Even the insignificant of those virtues are rewarded and the smallest of the bad deeds are accounted in the court of Allaah.
  • About Faith and Enlightenment- Learning Iman and getting Hidayat (enlightenment) are reserved for those who strive and spend time in the path of Allaah, it cannot be achieved at home.
  • About Allaah- With Allah’s help difficult things are made easy. Believe strongly that everything happens from Allaah. So fear Him and Trust Him. Hatred for Polytheism and evils (Shirk and Shar) are must. Fix your eyes only to One Allaah, The Supreme love Him. Be grateful to Him.
  • About Prophet (Peace be upon him)- Believe firmly that he is the true and beloved Prophet of Allaah. Obey his commands and Sunnah; love him more than your Nafs (desires).
  • About Namaz- keep aside the world while praying Namaz. Remember the meaning of all you recite. Do not sleep through the night spend some in Remembrance of Allaah.
  • About Zikr- Be present while doing the Zikr (remembrance) of Allaah with meaning, remembrance and wholeheartedly. Go into the depth of Zikr to increase Iman.
  • About Hereafter- Think of death. Fear the Day of Judgment and try to cry for the committed sins.         
  • About World- Sacrifice to attain closeness to Allaah; its love and impact should not create a distance from Him. Use it to produce outstanding deeds and virtues to get rewards in Hereafter.
  • About Nafs and Satan- Identify Nafs and Satan because they are everywhere, with everybody, running in your blood with full strength to deceive and damage you. Planning to trap you, understand their tricks in advance. The moment we violate Allaahs Commands or leave Prophet sws path, then Allaahs Angels leave protection and Satan, Nafs attack or jump on to us it is then, that all the sufferings and chaos begin in life.
  • About Gift- Wisdom, Peace, Allaah’s Help, Barakath, Blessings and Noor.
  • About Parents- Provide honorable service to them. Be obedient. Listen to them, don’t follow your mind in front of them, elders are experienced and mature.Oh children ! if you don’t serve your parents who is there that will look after them.
  • About husband and wife- A sense of Respect, softness and kindness, displaying love and helping him/ her to reduce each other’s burdens. Husband’s happiness is Allaah’s Commands.
  • About children-They should not learn the wrongs’ from parents. Be concerned about their character building. Their capacity and capabilities must not be wasted or left unnoticed. Satan has a great impact and influence on them. When needed scold them for their mistakes, so that they fear you.
  • About relatives- Help them in their needs. Love, kindness, respect honour is our asset for them.
  • About Guest- Entertain guests to the best of your ability. Guests should not be a burden to the host or cause hindrance in their daily routine. Allaah showers lot of Barakat to the host.
  • About neighbours- Enquire about their well-being. Must keep healthy relationships with them.
  • About Servant and Employees- Be kind and soft to them, love and help them when they are in need. Forbid harshness and rudeness with them.
  • About the Pious- Respect and love them. Judge your spirituality on where you stand, by observing their expressions. The condition of your wisdom (heart) counts there, not the possession of the material world. They deserve our service.
  • About Talks- Talks are dangerous; it can drag you in proudness, controversies and Fithnas. Tongue is Allaah’s pen. Talks destroy consistency of Amaal that is why right from the Wuzu  one should avoid talking.  Often, Talks hurts.
  • About the path of Allaah- Power of Iman and Wisdom develops in the path of Allaah. Top class peace is achieved there. Learn Iman, Tauba to change life and get Tarbeith (reformation). Performing sacrifices for the cause of Ummah and its unity. Spend time in the path Allaah InshaAllaah life will be changed automatically.
  • About patients- Be kind and soft to them. Give them the best care yet remembering not to invest on their unnecessary cures. Never become a miser for the treatment, at times it’s a question of life and death. Allaah will reward you for your service.
  • About Business- Look after your customers and look after your people. Keep an honest record of all your transactions. Be transparent in your dealings and fulfill commitments. Earn a Halal livelihood without damaging the good deeds (Amaal). Neither take a loan to become rich nor give loan to  those who create chaos.
  • About health- Good digestive system means, Good health, Good stamina, excellent  performance and endurance. Avoiding sugary, junky, oily and fried foods or dishes. Exercising regularly. Forbidding thoughts of eating at odd times. Whatever Halal food comes eat little by thinking its Allaah’s Niyamat.
  • About Sleep- Don’t think about anything while trying to sleep. Silently do the Zikr of Allaah. Don’t sleep the whole night spend some for Ibadath.
  • About wisdom- All our activities must reflect wisdom and a shining Noor. It is very hard to develop wisdom but it gets destroyed  quickly and easily. Try to visit the mosque regularly, its Allaah’s house the generous house, ask what you want.
  • About personality- a calm, composed and a strong will powered personality. Not to comment on every matter.                                   
  • About attitude- Excellent behaviour and humbleness.
  • About thinking- Think, what the Prophet (Peace be upon him) had thought on that particular occasion or what thoughts would please Allaah and the Prophet (Peace be upon him).
  • About facial expression- Confidence, Happiness, Cheerful and a smiling face.
  • About Time, Energy and Money- Smart people save these and utilise them wisely and judiciously. Either you are in Zikr or in Ghaflat.
  • About Deeds- Try to open the door of Amaal by Duaien, so that we can develop consistency of Amaal. Door of ILM has opened a lot but not that of Amaal. Obeying the Commands of Allaah, the Prophet (Peace be upon him) and his Sunnah.
  • About Principles- The principles of Dawah.
  • About behaviour- Self-service and independence. My behaviour should not hurt others. Listen earnestly when people talk, maintain eye contact and be attentive, it’s a Sunnah.
  • About Respect- Forbidding begging from anyone except Allaah, if there is a tussle between money and respect, spend the money and save the respect.
  • About Friends- Be very selective and cautious while choosing peers. Maintaining harmony and a healthy relationship at all times. Spread their excellent virtues and qualities and hide their drawbacks. All the misunderstandings must be sort it out amicably.
  • About Distress- Think that Prophet (Peace be upon him) had suffered much more than all of us. Find out the root causes, have patience, look for the perfect remedies, consult the right professional, repent (Tauba), Trust in Allaah and do Duaien.                            
  • About Policies- Maintain Secrecy and honesty.    Learn not to disclose all affairs.
  • About Others- Whatever you like for yourself, the same thing you should love for others. Know your limitations and boundaries.
  • About Success- Those entering Paradise and escaping Hell are the fortunate winners.  Moderation in life.
  • About Capital & Strength - Sunnah and Shariah. Kalima and Namaz.
  • About Duaien- Begging for Hidayath. Failing divergence towards the path that lands in ultimate darkness and May Allaah excuse our sins and bless us with comforts in the world and Hereafter.

 

    • With The Almighty Allaah’s help difficult things are made easy. Don’t play with your own capacities and capabilities (Salaheithe) by talking, thinking, eating or in wrong activities nor allow anyone to play with it. If you do so, nothing will be left for perfect causes and sufferings would be switched on.
    • Be careful regarding sins, deception and present subjects so that you don’t forget the Masnun Duaien and the Sunnah. The World is a place of masterminded deceptions, test and mujahada, so be alert at all times
    • Learn how to switch off and on, especially when you enter home switch off from the entire world so that you can take enough care of your family members, which we often do neglect.
    • Wherever the Sunnah is lacking in your life, try to revive them. Must learn the Sunnah of home. Preferably from Magrib to Isha create an environment of Zikr, (Telawat, Tasbih) etc., e.g. lock the kitchen, laptop and mobile phones  for two hours so that it doesn’t become a mode of hindrance or interference.
    • Whatever unnecessary things are entered in your life eradicate them from the root.
    • “Respect and service to all” should be our motto at all times and places.
    • Must recharge yourself in the path of The Almighty Allaah (Dawah) then only one will be able to perform good deeds and stop from the evil. Many people will shed tears of blood on the Day of Judgment but we hardly bother or pay heed to it. This fear cannot be developed at home.
    • It is difficult to distinguish between the reminders of The Almighty Allaah and that of Satan.
    • Commands of The Almighty Allaah changes according to its priority, similarly the line of Worship changes but we often don’t understand.  
    • Protect time and Amaal. Despair torture and foul talks.
    • The Noor of Iman brings happiness, Barakath, and afieth. By this derived ‘Noor’ identify Satan, Fithna and cheaters. Even the wife and the children can cheat us by Satan’s influence.
    • Some people are able to digest Noor some waste it by doing sins. Like wasting of money by extravagance (fuzul kharchi).
    • If Sunnah is there The Almighty Allaah’s help and mercy (kudhrat) is in favour else it is against.
    • Consider yourself as a sinful man (Ghunahgar) and send messages of good Amaal with softness (towajo) to The Almighty Allaah
    • At the Kiyamath The Almighty Allaah shall take account of my sins and Niyamat.
    • Healing from inside is must.
    • Death must not come in course of disobedience of The Almighty Allaah.
    • Till now I could not construct a house of Amaal, repent for it
    • Mind must fear towards disobedience of The Almighty Allaah
    • Silence cures many ailments and troubles (Bala). Tongue is The Almighty Allaah’s pen.
    • Fear of The Almighty Allaah will keep you closer to Him.
    • Exemplary character will take you closer to Huzur Peace be upon him.
    • Protection from the sins and evils will make both of them happy.
    • Pride of Nafs and leaving the work of Dawah inculcates test (Fithna) and hands over the body to Nafs and Satan, so be careful.
    • Weaknesses, abnormality and faults (aaibs) must not be visible to others. Don’t disclose secrets of yours or others.
    • Always search specifically the reasons and the root causes for our own sufferings and from where are they coming that may strike in the future .
    • Some children and wives follow Satan but they expect their father and husband to be nice and gentle with them, similarly vice a-versa.
    • Whatever Rasool Peace be upon him had done or asked us to do from morning to evening and evening to morning if we can do that, we are most fortunate one to
    • earn many rewards. Hazrat Abu Bakr RA used to earn rewards the most. This is the Purpose of the work of Dawah. 28. Input of knowledge ( ILM) is too much yet the output in Amaal is very little, this is because of improper understanding of Deen, Sunnah and Shariah.
    • Respect the Aazan the moment it enters the ears, it’s the call of The Almighty Allaah.
    • Each moment, either we  need to show gratefulness to The Almighty Allaah ( Shukr) or to show patience (sabr).
    • Death in Iman is important whether to have all those quality or not, it does not matter. Karte rehna, darte rehna, rote rehna, mangte rehna aur mante rehna.
    • Building of a family is a lifetime’s work. The family that undertakes this work with sincererity and commitments gives humanity a precious gift. Children are your firm if you give proper environment and nutrition certainly they will grow up to the mark.
    • Always treat your children with affection, love and tenderness. Keep them happy by providing for their needs and requirements according to your ability. Promote sentiments of loyalty and devotion in your children and acknowledge their good deeds.
    • Today’s youth do not have enough wisdom to select a right kind of girl or boy but their desire makes them hanker after any girl or boy with their beauty glamour,  and degrees. So they go ahead with their marriage decision and ignore many people’s advice including that of their parents. When the beauty and the glamour is over, they start fighting and many a  times it leads to divorce.
    • Family members must consult each other before taking any decision, major or small to avoid serious chaos. Wife should not be in bad mood on seeing husband’s face. She should not start complaining instantly seeing the husband’s face. She should wait for suitable time and moment. Otherwise Satan will enjoy the game. Normal habit of a women is that she rarely accept her faults. At the same time many husband also do not care for the sentiments, emotion of their wives.
    • Don’t be angry with your wife frequently, it might deprive her from many good rewards, handle her with vision. If she troubles you with one thing, at the same time she benefits you in one thousand ways.
    • Many women come from different back ground, culture and environment and their attitude, temperament are different than of yours so you must have patience ( sabr).
    • The mentality of Indian women is that they can accept the death of their husband as many people die but they cannot tolerate their husband having more wives. Indian culture is different from Arabian culture.
    • Never disrespect a guest or create chaos in front of a guest, as it’s a worst thing. Meet them cheerfully, look after them best of your ability. The Almighty Allaah will open the door of Barakat ( plenty). Give gifts to your foreign guest. At the same time the guest should not be a burden to the host, and disturb the daily routine of the host. 
    • Environment teaches us many things; those who live in a healthy environment surrounded by health conscious people also take an  interest in fitness. The state of your life is nothing but a reflection of your state of body, mind and soul
    • Eat only when you are hungry; leave eating when little hunger is left. Never praise or criticize the food.
    • Keep a low profile you will be benefited in many ways. Never take a loan to become rich.
    • Television in enough to destroy our children, Deen etc. Hate it; it is one of biggest killer of time, energy, rest and sleep.
    • Respect is in your own hands, you can preserve it or destroy it. Short-tempered and ill manners people damage the Image of Islam.
    • You will be tired and exhausted by doing Worship of The Almighty Allaah but The Almighty Allaah will not be tired of  giving you rewards, so it is better to follow moderation in life.
    • Bathroom slippers are root causes of many fractured bones of our elders; check their soles if it is slippery, replace them.
    • Be on time, don’t make others wait for you, at the same time make sure that others do not make you wait for long. Smart people save time, energy and money. Learn from the past , look at the future with hope, move ahead with confidence.
    • If you have suffered loss, don’t repent too much. It was your fate. You have acquired an experience which will guide in future Allaah.
    • If you want to reform someone or want to say something wait for a suitable moment and place. Also understand the temperament  of that person.
    • Don’t put people in trouble otherwise The Almighty Allaah will do the same for you.
    • During happiness and ceremonies don’t be on bad mood, Deen is for maintain good relationship not breaking up relationship.
    • Actual Ibadath Namaz, Roza and Zikr of The Almighty Allaah but as I said before The Almighty Allaah’s Commands and priority changes, for instance when someone become sick in the family taking proper care is a must, take him to a doctor or admit him in a hospital without any delay. The Almighty Allaah will reward you similar to the Ibadath. Delay in dealing such cases might be  a causes of repentance.
    • When Iman becomes weak then the Namaz of Fajr becomes difficult, this particular Namaz gives an idea to know the condition of our Iman. When Iman becomes weak one does not want to stay at the mosque, laziness and ignorance covers him and he does not at all bother for Akherath.
    • How you are in front of The Almighty Allaah? Judge it from the people’s opinion about you; the same you are in front of The Almighty Allaah.
    • Someone told me it is very difficult to understand whether The Almighty Allaah is happy or unhappy, he said when it rains during the day which at times make our life troublesome and at night the sky remains clear; understand that the Almighty is unhappy. But when it rains at the night and  clear and shining sky during the day that indicates The Almighty Allaah’s pleasure. When you feel happy by doing good deeds but feel sad l when evil is committed that indicates Iman is present in  you.
    • Another way to understand The Almighty Allaah’s happiness to an individual is He sends Blessings, Noor and Sakina to his heart, helps him in his day to day life, things become easier without any hurdles and finally on his death He rewards him the Paradise. Similarly when The Almighty Allaah is unhappy He sends troubles, distress and frustration in his heart, material world acts against him, life is full of troubles, obstructions and  becomes miserable, The Almighty Allaah does all these things so that he changes the track of his life with Tauba (repentance), if doesn’t do that, then finally  the death comes with The Almighty Allaah’s displeasure and afterward  punished him with the fire of Hell.
    • Always show love and respect to  in laws, as they have gifted their loving daughter, so that she can live at peace with her husband.
    • If you notice somebody is angry with you try to make him normal at the initial stage, don’t take it lightly otherwise his anger may turn in to a serious consequences. Don’t fight with people as one becomes weak when he fights. Don’t commit such mistakes for which you have to repent the whole life.
    • Everybody’s reformation is possible except those who are lazy.
    • Many people often invites guest for meal  but at times it becomes a nightmare for the wife who has to spend hours in the kitchen.
    • Never interrupt  others in their conversation, wait till they finish.
    • Begging is such a bad habit it’s difficult to leave and it destroys respect.
    • What are the mistakes we are committing at home we don’t realize there but in the path of The Almighty Allaah it comes to our notice. So try to reform ourselves.
    • Be completely fair and honest in all your dealings and money related transaction so that no one can point a finger on you and people can trust you easily.
    • We are surrounded with cheaters, liars, frauds but we have to deal with them for our daily necessities. From the electricians to car mechanics, shopkeepers to lawyers, milkmen to jewelers , travel agents to taxi drivers, painters to printers, vegetable venders to meat shop, general stores to fish market, everywhere you come across cheats. Markets are flooded with duplicate stuff. Even medicine shops are selling spurious medicines. How to manage these critical  condition is a big question. An alert mind, perfect commonsense, consult the right professional, study of the market and right decision can save us from the loss and sufferings.
    • Many people will keep in touch with you just to fulfill their selfish needs and interest. When it is fulfilled they will run away and not even recognize you. Identify such people and try to maintain a distance from them.
    • Effort is the key to develop strong will power. Whatever the subject we strive for, the same thought develops in our mind.  
    • Whatever the little opportunity The Almighty Allaah has given to you use them wisely, instead of waiting for a better opportunity.
    • Walking has thousands of benefits. You need to understand whether your body needs exercise or rest, but most of the time it needs exercise. Body’s fitness depends upon body’s metabolic system; it is said that 40 minutes of regular brisk walking boosts metabolic system. One has to perspire while doing exercises.
    • Sweet dishes, sugar, fried, oily and gravy foods are the main culprit of our health.  

     
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